Party Invite Creates Furor, Dialogue on Color Divide: "Yasmine Toney describes herself as a 'dark-skinned sista.' So when she heard about a recent club promotion in Detroit, allowing all-night free admission to black women with fair or light skin, she was incensed. 'It's offensive,' Toney said. 'It continues a negative stereotype.' 'I'm perceived to be aggressive, assertive, attitude-having ... a lot of things, because my complexion is darker,' said the 24-year-old receptionist. The party was canceled last week after its promoter, who is black, received dozens of complaints. But for Toney and other black women, the issue reopened old, deep wounds as word of the party spread through the Internet."
How black women are viewed -- and treat each other -- depending on the hue of their skin, eye color, and the length and grade of their hair has long been a point of contention for many in the black community.
Many women with lighter skin frequently are accused of believing they are better than those with darker complexions. Many women with brown or dark-brown complexions complain that they too often are not treated as well socially or professionally as those with fairer skin.
"I think they get to slide in a little easier," Toney, who is pursuing a master's degree in counseling, said of women with lighter skin. "They are assumed to be passive and nice and sweet. I feel I have to do a little bit more. Number one, I'm black. Number two, I'm dark and I have short hair."
Interesting.
1 comment:
I like to think of myself as color blind. Shades of skin color are irrelevant and play no part in whether or not a black woman is more or less attractive. Anyone who uses skin color as a measuring stick for intelligence or beauty is a neanderthal as far as I'm concerned.
I'll just use one example, Viola Davis is one of my favorite actress'. She's intelligent and beautiful and has very dark skin. So what, I always enjoy watching her act!!
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